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Coping Statements for Suicidal Thoughts

A saying or quote that strikes a chord with us can be a very useful tool for coping with suicidal thoughts or feelings.

Many people desperately wish to stop their suicidal thoughts. Often, this is possible. You might be able to eliminate suicidal thoughts by healing the depression, stress, hopelessness, self-hatred or whatever forces underlie them.

How Do You React to Suicidal Thoughts?

You can observe your suicidal thoughts mindfully, watching as they pass through your head without feeding them or giving into them. 

Another way to react to suicidal thoughts is to soothe yourself by telling yourself what you might tell a close friend or relative in the same situation. Only, this time, you are being a friend to yourself. This coping technique calls for what therapists call “coping statements.”

What Are Coping Statements?

A coping statement is whatever you can tell yourself that will help you to pass safely through the minefield of suicidal thoughts. Examples include:

This will pass.

That is my depression talking, not me.

I will get through this.

Just because my thoughts tell me to kill myself doesn’t mean I really should.

I don’t really want to die, I just want the pain to end.

There are other ways to end my pain, even if I can’t see them right now.

My suicidal thoughts are not rational.

Suicidal thoughts are a symptom, not a solution.

 

Source: http://www.speakingofsuicide.com/2014/05/14/coping-statements/


Article Comments

  • "thank you good thoughts"
  • - Lucylula (15th of June 2016, 08:32:51 PM)
  • "I've always tried to think of a quote or saying that I can pull out when the going gets tough. This shall pass seems to be the one that helps the most for me. Thinking back in time when other things have passed. Time passes so quickly and nothing is permanent. Thanks "
  • - Freya (4th of September 2017, 10:50:57 PM)
  • "I've always tried to think of a quote or saying that I can pull out when the going gets tough. This shall pass seems to be the one that helps the most for me. Thinking back in time when other things have passed. Time passes so quickly and nothing is permanent. Thanks "
  • - Freya (4th of September 2017, 10:50:58 PM)

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